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Sara's avatar

Damn. I cried and laughed on nearly every line. This is incredible. Heroes, friends, family… song friends. I love this, Jay. Thank you.

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Rory Bourke's avatar

Love Song Friends Jay,I can hear your voice in every written

Word…thanks for the Billy Hill

Stories,Thanks,Rory

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Jay Knowles's avatar

Thanks, Rory! It means a lot to me that you’re enjoying it. (There may even be a Rory Bourke story in a future edition.. that’s all I’ll say.)

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Ken Spooner's avatar

Jay ; GOOD STORIES, "Billy Hill" they put fun into it and some sage advice ya da ya da etc ipso facto .... On a slightly different note here's a long distance drive tip when in a traffic jam, construction zone, over turned semi etc. My go to CDS are George Van Eps "Mellow Guitar" or "Sittin ' Back Pickin" by that guy you know well. Both of those can really melt the miles.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

Good picks. I seem to find Chopin piano pieces are good for the more intense stretches as well.

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Adam Wright's avatar

I thought we were doing it because it was a really quick way to get mega rich. Am I wrong?

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Joan Menefee's avatar

I work with the under 25 set, as you know. The weirdest thing I see among them is the conviction that it's already too late for most things. Too late? Really? Too soon, maybe, for a lot of things. But no, not nearly as late as you think.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

This should be the official (and complete) commencement speech given at all outdoor graduations with a temperature of ninety degrees and above.

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Joan Menefee's avatar

Oh yes the heat wave! How miserable. I am glad you survived it.

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BCBW's avatar

This is good and that’s all.

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Trent Summar's avatar

Jay, you were my first real co writer outside of the Hank Flamingo band. All we have done for the last 30 years is try to make each other laugh and that is why we have had big hits and near misses and a few rain outs. Tell the girl hey.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

Wouldn’t want to have spent those years any other way.

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Luigi Cappel's avatar

Trace gave us some great songs in that vein, one of my favorites is Just Fishing. I didn't get any great advice from my parents. My grandparents told me to do what I love and to love what I do. They also taught me to be kind. My friends who died taught me that this life isn't a dress rehearsal. My mentors taught me that if you wish it, you can bring it, but sometimes it comes from left-field and you need to be ready to grab hold of it. Tim said Live Like You Were Dying, and being in remission from cancer, I back that. Darn it, now I'm going to have to write some songs for my little grandchildren :D

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Jay Knowles's avatar

My buddy Wynn Varble wrote that Just Fishin’ sing. It and he are good ones.

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Luigi Cappel's avatar

Wow, Trace knows how to pick them doesn't he? What an awesome song! Did Wynn offer it to him or was it shopped around? It went to the right person imho and I'm sure they both did really well from it.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

I don’t know. But I agree!

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STEVE BOGARD's avatar

Love it! Is there a 2023 version of the great scene in "The Graduate" where the guy tells Dustin he has one word for him, "Plastics?" I love me some one word wisdom, maybe "Algorithms/"

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Jay Knowles's avatar

Ha. I think that’s exactly the word.

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Rita Blood's avatar

This brings me back to when my oldest graduated and moved away to her first job. All I could say to her was “all those lucky kids to have you for a teacher, and remember if it’s not the right city for you you will find the right one”. You have already given her the right words. Best of all she knows how much you love, trust and respect her. Plus she knows you will always be there. Enjoy your drive.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

All true. Thanks.

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Rita Blood's avatar

I’ll also say she moved back after only one year away. 😊

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Name: Drew Kennedy, Guest's avatar

I look forward to receiving these so very much, Jay. Thank you.

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Kim Richey's avatar

Totally agree! I've met most of my best friends and favorite people from songwriting. I needed this reminder just now. Good timing, Jay.

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Jay Knowles's avatar

You are on my list, for sure.

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